4How attentive is he to your stories
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Research has proved that men pay attention to a woman’s talking for only 6 minutes. This is why you should keep your conversations short. However, I don’t really think this is the case because a loving partner will love being in your presence. If sitting next to you and hearing your rant gives him more time with you, then he will listen to you. A man who loves you will always give you the attention you deserve. On the other hand, there are men who may love you but wouldn’t find such girl talk interesting so it’s healthy to make a good friend whom you could gossip with about Celebes, shopping, fashion etc.
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If he doesn’t love you
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If he doesn’t love you, he will constantly attempt to change the topic or ask you to stop disturbing him as he is doing something important. He may act busy or pretend he has something important to do and will run away from you whenever you try to talk or make conversation. In short, he just doesn’t find you interesting enough to speak to. Moreover, he cares little for your concerns and worries and will definitely not want to discuss relationship issues with you.
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5How he reacts to your emotions
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Some men dislike women crying. Research offered an explanation saying that female tears consist of volatile substances that decrease testosterone in men’s blood and that decreases desire.
Although you should use tears to get what you want, a loving partner will never feel the way science has explained, so science be damned. When you are genuinely sad and crying, a loving partner will console you and love putting their arms around you to treat you like a baby. He will offer his shoulder to cry on because that’s what love is all about. Even if your tears are trivial, he will smile, and try to make you laugh about what you are crying about.
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When he doesn’t love you
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But!! If he doesn’t love you, he would care two hoots about the reason you cry and may tell you to stop acting like an immature person. He may even get irritated and insinuate how you cry about everything. In fact, crying is another reason to be angry at you.
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6Flirting
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Did you know that harmless flirting is good for relationships? This is a great way to break monotony and dull routines of everyday life. It can actually spice up a healthy relationship and make your partner find you more alluring by indulging in texting, chatting, sending teasing photos. This rekindles the feelings and emotions of the early days of the relationship. On a naughtier level, speaking about fantasies and fetishes certainly, do light up the fire in the bedroom. This, of course, has to be a two-way street where both respond in kind.
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If he doesn’t love you
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However, after sending erotic selfies and teasing hot photos, your partner displays no reaction and makes no mention of it, then something is certainly wrong. Either stop this immediately or start analyzing what could be going wrong in the relationship.
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