Psychologists Want To Redefine 'Infidelity' To Save Relationships

7Be honest with yourself and your partner

One of the most important steps to repair a relationship is to be brutally honest with each other. If your partner suspects you have an affair and they question about it, let them know the truth. Sometimes, it is not easy to confess your past crimes. If you can’t do that, then at least be honest about your present and future. Statements like ‘It will never happen again’ or ‘It was just a mistake won’t help’ are often deluding. You have to openly discuss everything. If infidelity already occurred and you are desperate to fix the relationship, you will simply be chasing an unsatisfying fantasy. If there are any misgivings in your head, let your partner know and see if they can be fixed.

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8Watch each other

You and your partner can mutually agree to install a spouse text spyware app on your phones to keep tabs on each other. Many couples think using xnspy.com is a great way to connect with each other. This spouse text spyware app lets you monitor the text message conversations, calls and even location of your partner. When you know your partner is watching you, you are more likely to control your desires. Xnspy doesn’t always have to be used to ensure your partner is not cheating on you. It can also be used to ensure they are safe. For example, if your partner is out for a business meeting to another town, you can use Xnspy’s location tracking feature to find out if they have safely reached their hotel. Remember one thing, you shouldn’t be using this Android app for spying on spouse without their consent.

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9Give your partner time to heal

We don’t live in an ideal world so if you were unfaithful once, saying sorry cannot bring back your partner’s affection. In fact, things won’t be the same. You must give your partner enough time to heal and trust you again.

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