Original- We have three main romantic loves in our lives, and each serves a different purpose when it comes to our personal growth.
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In terms of personal development, everyone has three basic types of romantic loves: platonic, erosive, and passionate. However, a person may think they only need one love in their life. Perhaps you even believe that your first love will be the most meaningful one and that it will last. The importance of first-hand knowledge cannot be overstated. Still, the sheer number of people who believe in the 3-love hypothesis is mind-boggling.
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Original- Falling in love the 1st time
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According to Rose, everybody’s first love will be the one that looks right. The prime time for meeting this type of individual and developing romantic feelings for one another is during your teens and college years. Your first love is the person who will teach you what it’s like to be in a committed relationship.
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But you may not be a good match for each other
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Even if it’s not a good match, the first love is idealistic. Since you’ve never been in love before, when you get into your first relationship, there’s a lot of upheaval as both of you continue to discover yourself and what you want in life.
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You will choose to believe that this should be your only love
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Even though it may not seem exactly right, you may choose to ignore the red flags or indicators just to make it work. Rose states- “We enter into it with the belief that this will be our only love and it doesn’t matter if it doesn’t feel quite right, or if we find ourselves having to swallow down our personal truths to make it work because deep down we believe that this is what love is supposed to be.”
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