Dating an emotional psycho can be traumatic in more ways than one. The disadvantages of being in such a relationship are that you find out only after you’ve entered into the relationship. It isn’t too hard to realize the reason for the inevitable breakup but what you can do is to recognize the signs you’re dating a psycho so that you can do something about it. Once you know you’re in a relationship with a psycho, it’s your call!
A Psycho will always try to make out that everything is your fault. They know and understand that the fault is theirs because they aren’t stupid but a psycho’s nature is such that he simply can’t bring himself to admit his mistake. They will make you feel it’s your fault.
Dating an Emotional Psycho blaming
Psychos don’t really care about your feelings and will lie left right and center. They lie out of nowhere and will never even realize what they’re doing. For them lying is second nature and they do it so well it’s almost like truth. For them, it doesn’t really matter.
Such people are truly emotionally ill as they are forever pointing fingers at the world for their failures, especially you. They will care two hoots how you feel but will constantly drum it into your head that "It’s because of you I cannot achieve my goals."
You know you’re dating a psycho because for him, you are nothing but an object. They know that they have found their perfect partner who loves them but instead of appreciating such a fact, they try to control you for their own petty gains and needs. Your feelings will never be reciprocated.
Living with such a person means you never going to get help. Moreover, your world will be limited by his preventing you to communicate with friends and even family. In this manner, they bind you closer to them without interference making sure your survival only depends on them.
A psycho always needs psychological and physical manipulation and control over his partner. To be in charge, they will use every sort of intimidation, charm, manipulation and possibly violence to be in control. Standing up for yourself is risking physical and emotional trauma. The best way is to refrain from engaging in such activity and tell person you won’t play that game.
In order to feel that he isn’t losing control and influence over you, a psycho will constantly check your mails, your messages and even your call logs to see who you speak to or remain in touch with. Such things give him a sense of insecurity and loss of control.
When you’re away at work or out, a psycho will keep calling you every now and then to check your whereabouts. If he had his way he would prefer you stay and stagnate at home. You going out will cause him undue stress as to what you’re up to. According to him, you could be plotting an escape or being influenced by others to break off the relationship. Even if you’re a bit late, be prepared for an interrogation.