What Does Your Sitting Position Say About Your Personality?

By Andrew Alpin, 14 July 2022

Experts have studied behavior and found that how you place your legs when you sit can reveal a lot about your personality. Yes, your legs and feet can say a lot about who you are. Experts say that your legs work based on instructions from your subconscious, which is hardwired to move you toward what you want or away from danger or negative emotions like fear, anxiety, boredom, insecurity, etc.

Studies have shown that flight attendants are taught to look for people with crossed ankles as a sign that they are nervous or anxious and need help. As part of their training, flight attendants are instructed to ask these passengers more than once if they want anything else to help them relax and open up.

Enjoy reading about your personality traits and those of the people you know based on how they sit.

Number 1: Sitting with your knees straight

Key Characteristics: Smart, rational thinkers, honest but reserved, cleanliness lovers, punctual, hard workers.

Researchers at Ohio State University found that people sitting with their knees straight during job interviews are more qualified for the job. They are also someone who has confidence in themselves and what they can do. They have a healthy and positive view of themselves, so they aren't as worried about things. These people are smart, think logically, and are on time in their daily lives. They are least likely to get somewhere to a meeting or an interview late.

They are more likely to do smart work and keep their homes, kitchens, offices, and places where they work clean and organized. They have the ability to stay calm in dire situations, so they rarely lose sight of what's important. Their calm minds also help them notice any changes in their surroundings or things that happen daily. They are honest, but they don't talk much. They won't talk about other people behind their backs or spread rumors. They would rather keep their feelings under control or to themselves than make a scene or fight.

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Number 2: Sitting with your knees apart

Key Characteristics: Arrogant, self-centered, short attention span, easily bored, judgmental.

People who sit with their knees apart give off a feeling of being self-centered. They also seem to be proud and quick to judge. But studies have shown the exact opposite of what seems to be true. They also could be anxious and worrisome people. But since they want to be perfect, they are always afraid that something will go wrong.

Researchers have found that people sitting with their knees apart have chaotic minds and schedules. They can't stay focused for long and have a short attention span. They are always discovering new things and are so interested in them that they can't do one thing well at a time. They think they are wise, but most of the time, their thoughts are broken. They say things before they think about what might happen, or worse, they forget what they were going to say in the middle of a conversation.

No matter where they are, in relationships or at work, they need constant nudges and discipline to get things done in an organized way. Men usually sit with their knees apart, which is called "manspreading." However, in psychology, this is seen as a sign that the man is a "man child" who needs constant mothering or someone to keep them on track.

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Number 3: Sitting with your legs crossed

Key Characteristics: Artistic, creative, dreamer, imaginative, defensive or closed off.

Studies have shown that people who sit with their legs crossed often come up with the most out-of-the-box ideas. They think in very creative ways and are big dreamers. But they often get lost in their own train of thought when sitting with a group of people. Most of the time, they have a big personality.

However, sitting cross-legged can make you seem defensive or closed off. It could be that you are either afraid or trying to hide your worries. When you sit with your legs crossed during a conversation, it looks like you're not interested, especially if one of your feet is facing the door or away from the person you're talking to. Experts have noticed that people who sit with their legs crossed are more likely to reject ideas, speak less, or not pay attention in a business setting than people who sit with their legs open. Even worse, if you also cross your arms, it's clear that you don't want to be part of the conversation.

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Number 4: Sitting with your ankles crossed

Key Characteristics: Elegant, refined, royal, confident, ambitious, defensive, but down-to-earth.

Did you know that when the British Royal family sits, they often cross their ankles? Sitting with your ankles crossed, you live like a king or queen. You are classy, refined, and easygoing. You can look very sure of yourself and at ease in any situation. You rarely get upset, and you're okay with things going at their own speed. In fact, you can make everyone around you feel good about themselves. To reach your goals, you will work hard and never stop because you are confident in reaping the fruits of your labor.

You listen well and don't tell anyone's secrets. But you won't tell anyone your secrets or your next plan of action. You have a lot of pride and also care a lot about how you look most of the time. You would make sure your appearance was right for the situation. Experts in behavior and psychology have also found that sitting with your ankles crossed is sometimes a sign of defensiveness and insecurity. However, you are able to hide your worries or fears in a sophisticated way.

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Number 5: Sitting with a figure four leg lock

Key characteristics: Confident, dominant, secure, happy, youthful, competitive, and argumentative.

The Figure-Four leg lock is a way to sit that resembles the number 4 when your legs are crossed, and one foot is over the other knee. Sitting in the "figure-four leg lock" position shows that you are strong and sure of yourself. If you sit with your legs crossed in a figure four, you are more dominant, relaxed, confident, and youthful compared to people who sit in other ways. You feel safe and happy with who you are. Even if you feel like you don't have something, you will put your mind and energy into getting what you want.

Setting up your career and getting an education is important to you. You will always work harder to achieve your goals even when you don't feel like it. This doesn't mean you don't enjoy other parts of your life. Behavior experts have also noticed that people who sit in the figure four style tend to think that everything has its own time and place. They believe that God has a plan for everything. They also care a lot about how they look and like to dress well. They are argumentative or competitive and likely to disagree with anyone with a different point of view.

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Other things you do while sitting that can reveal some more aspects of your personality-

1 Having your hands on your lap

People sitting with their hands in their laps are often thought to be authoritative and sure of themselves, but this is far from the truth. Most of the time, this is a sign that someone is trying to be extra nice. People with this style of sitting are very emotional. They are very passionate, kind, and pleasant. They also tend to please other people.

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2 Leaning back with the support of your arms

When sitting, people who tend to lean back and rest their arms on the back of the chair tend to be very observant and analytical. You tend to look around and judge things without actively taking part. You like to see how things fit into the bigger picture. This lets you stay calm and think things through before you jump into a conversation or fight. You think about every little thing and, most importantly, how the people involved feel.

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3 Sitting on the floor with legs crossed

You are open to new ideas, able to change how you feel, and don't worry about anything. You also seem to be interested in spiritual things. You live in the present, are aware of what's happening around you, and feel calm and stable.

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4 Knees facing each other while sitting

People who sit with their knees next to each other without crossing their legs are friendly, outgoing, and happy. They can be talkative, optimistic, and approachable as they are very sociable.

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5 Placing your hands on the armrests

People who sit with their hands on the armrest are more sensitive. They are aware of where they are and what is happening around them. People hold the armrest because they want to feel safer and more comfortable. Such people are more grounded, stable, and dependable.

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6 Leg Clamp

Sitting in the Figure Four Leg Position with your hands on your bent leg shows you are tough, stubborn, and competitive. You probably won't agree with anyone else's point of view. The hand clamp shows resistance to different points of view and discussion.

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