If you are a man who says that a woman gives the most unexpected reply for obvious questions, she means exactly the opposite of what she says, she is demanding, she is emotional and knowing her is impossible, then actually it’s not she but you who are confused. Problem is when it comes to knowing a woman men hardly tax their brains. Mystery surrounding a woman can be solved only by an attentive and observant man with a little common sense. Just by knowing a woman’s personality that includes her daily habits, likes, dislikes, hobbies, weakness and strengths on a deeper level will help you know her character. Accordingly you can decide your behavior and action pattern.
Shannon Hale in her book, ‘Book of a Thousand Days’, mentions “Mama used to say, you have to know someone a thousand days before you can glimpse her soul”.
Every person leads their lives on a set of values. These values are related to finance, family, religion, lifestyle and principals. Pay attention to her actions and not words to help you understand what kind of a person she is. If she values superficial things in life like wealth and fame then she may not stick with you comfortably during the rough patches in your life but if she values simple living, honesty and trust then she will preserve you despite all ups and downs in life. Your values may differ from each other but little compromise from both sides can create a bright future together.
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If your woman makes plans and sticks to it, is against surprises, keeps everything neat and well placed, then she is an organized woman more in control of her thinking and less stressed. She will be optimistic, goal oriented, disciplined, showing a preference for planned activities than spontaneous ones, productive, perfectionist, decision maker, committed and will have do-it-now attitude. This does not mean less organized woman lack in positive qualities. They are creative, love surprises, liberal, do not like to follow rules and are fun to be with.
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Life is not a bed of roses. The best time to understand a woman’s inner beauty is during adversities and the way she handles them. Does she shrug her shoulder, cries, shouts, yells, gets violent or complains to her family and friends seeking a sympathetic reaction from them then it is very difficult for her to adjust to adversities. But a strong woman will understand the issue, find solutions, work towards them and not play any blame game. All handle major stress in different ways. What is important to notice is the way she handles minor stress that can be remedied easily.
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The way a woman manages and behaves with her close relationships indicates a lot about what kind of relationship she will share with you. If she puts the happiness of her relationship before hers then her ego will not get into the way of creating a strong partnership. If she treats her parents, family and friends with respect and practices honesty, trust, sacrifice then she will respect your relationships. But if she gossips about her own family and friends, cribs about people around her, can lie easily, is selfish and egoistic then be prepared for a tough time ahead.
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Watch her reaction if the waiter spills water on her dress? Does she yell, shout and abuse him or remain calm and ask him to be careful? Is she disrespectful towards the people who work for her like drivers and maids or kindness is her virtue with all? You may be treating your helpers kindly but her arrogant behavior will hurt them. If she disrespects people from lower sections then it’s unlikely that she will be calm at your toughest hour and be helpful to people around you.
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You can know a woman from the way she spends her free time. If she is into sports then she will be energetic and perseverant, creative hobbies like cooking, singing, dancing, painting suggest her creative mind and appealing nature, if she loves playing mind games like chess and Sudoku then her thinking is strategic, if she spends her time with a book in her hand then she will go into depth of matters and if she is into community service then will be simple and charitable. Sharing the same hobby of your woman can be a great way to spend free time without getting bored and connect with each other.
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Her emotional strength can be judged by her reactions and feelings. If she cries while watching every emotional drama or gets over - sensitive on seeing a homeless puppy then she is an emotional person. She will find it difficult to overpower her feelings, deal with criticism and make instant decisions, will try to please everyone and get upset if someone does not care. She will draw other people’s feelings inward to the point as if she is experiencing them. You have to decide your compatibility with such emotions. Emotionally strong woman manages the stresses of daily life more effectively and recovers quickly from any crisis.
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Some women take their outward appearance too seriously investing all their energy, money and resources into it. Insecure women are obsessed with their appearance and how people perceive them all the time. For them, compliments on their looks is utmost important. They will force their men to look presentable. Though all women love to look beautiful and so do men love looking at a beautiful woman, but spending hours every day in front of the mirror can irritate a man.
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If stimulating conversations make you go crazy then be with an intelligent and smart woman. A smart woman knows much about the world around her and has a keen interest in making it a better place. She will have goals in her life larger than carrying designer handbags or wearing branded attire. She will love if her man if he joins in a healthy conversation with her and appreciates more than just beauty in her. A smart woman is confident and will love herself regardless of her flaws and will love her man regardless of his flaws. She will help him grow as a person.
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Humor keeps a relationship healthy and connected. Always go in for a woman with whom you can laugh together and enjoy same fun activities. For couples who laugh together, last together. A woman with good sense of humor value in making others laugh and are happier and healthier. She will embrace her flaws and even laugh at them, will be creative with sharp memory and will make your life easy with humor.
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