If you find that this person has changed all of a sudden and is always blaming you, study the pattern of such outbursts. If they occur without any trigger, know that this is not about you, rather about his own issues. Even if there is any trigger, look for reasons that could have caused this. Most often these are nothing but defense mechanisms to not give their power away. Love should never be about power, rather caring for one another and this takes time to develop. Patience is the key.
After constant arguments, people are tempted to bump such meanies off of their friends' lists. If you find this person hanging around even after constant bickering, know that there is a strong reason that works out in your favor. Why would anyone want to stay put otherwise?
What more proof do you want that this relationship is waiting on its wings? When things do not happen immediately, you should not write off the relationship. Each story is different as not all are alike. When you are on a train, don’t you wait till it stops before you get off? Similarly, you must try everything to make it work before you decide the next course of action. An enigma is not always a dilemma.
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If this is the case, do not worry. Sometimes, it is best to follow this rule as otherwise the intensity can go out of hand and create havoc in your personal and professional lives. It Is possible to foster a bond without being in touch via the different modes of communication. It can get frustrating if you refuse to see the underlying benefits. If you were to indulge in calls and texts very often, the urge would only grow with time and lead to chaos in the relationship. It is always good to go slow in the initial stages.
You have the power to rewrite your story
Every story is different as each character has unique roles to play. The love in a relationship does not bloom overnight, rather it develops over time after facing quite a few hurdles. That which withstands despite rough weather is a keeper. But did you know that it is possible to rewrite your story from the place you are in at the moment? Yes, no matter what, with a little patience and lots of care, you can have love in your life to share. So, do not fret if yours is an unusual love story, for it is in your hands to make it come alive and reach its destined glory. And even if things were to go wrong, take heart in the fact that this has only made you further strong. Unusual love stories can have that invisible bond that binds two people for long.
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