Before dying Sarita’s grandmother expressed her last desire that no one will cry on her demise and maintain their daily routine without keeping any days of grief. She did not want anyone to be sad and accept dying as a natural process. Even while she was alive she did all that she could do to remain independent. But there are people who refuse to even move out of bed if there is a little problem in their body.
They constantly keep nagging and demanding assistance. Loved ones are always present to take care of us during sickness. But if the pain is manageable, asking your loved one to sacrifice their time and nurse is not fair. If you have a prolonged sickness then do not rely on one person as it can be exhausting for your caretaker instead build a support network.
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If you are comparing yourself with your affluent friends and cribbing about your financial crunch all the time to your husband or family members then you are making them feel inferior and worthless. Times are not the same always. One must happily learn to adjust in what they have. Instead of keeping a gloomy face all the time, blaming others, shouting, crying and not adjusting, one must try to create new sources of income.
Nobody invites poverty and as your loved one is trying to keep you happy you can reciprocate by staying happy.
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