Someone has rightly said that “love is blind”. It’s all rosy and perfect when we fall in love and usually, our partner is the ideal man on the planet. Our partner has no flaws and embodies everything which is right, beautiful and honest. It’s only after some time that we start seeing a person’s true colors and find them not-so-perfect after all, and we truly regret and wonder if we chose the right person. Well!! If you want to know if you have found Mr Right, then here are 12 signs you are marrying the right husband.
The true man will always be on your side of a fight no matter what and never abandons you. He is capable of making decisions quickly and never rethinks or complains about them afterwards. If you are going through a rough patch in life, he would be supportive rather than be judgmental about it, because as we all know when we are down and out, we need emotional support not a lecture about your mistakes. If your man is solid as a rock around you, chances are you have met the perfect man already.
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Yes, we mean a whole meal for the family, not just one dish and (without using up the entire plates and dishes available in the kitchen). These days’ women want their husbands to be a package deal with looks, love, intelligence and the ability to cook and sustain himself. Honestly, we women are the least demanding beings; if you just clean up the kitchen counter after your stint or decorate the salad we would not only love your food but also marry you immediately.
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Pretty similar to the first point but these sort of men are a rare breed who won’t be judgmental on their wife when she makes a mistake or blame her squarely for it. Instead look for a significant other who would be with you at your side even if you are wrong, because that’s what married couples are supposed to do….they are a team for life!
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Listening to you and remembering the things you like and dislike such as how many cubes of sugar you take in your tea or that you don’t like clothes lying around on the floor. This is a sign of a man who respects you and loves only you. Trust us, women love men who remember what gift he gave you last year rather them methodically remembering dates like a Wikipedia.
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What’s the use of a man who knows everything about anything under the sun but is at a complete loss when he has to look for his own phone, wallet and socks in the same room! Trust me a street-smart man with great maturity and a wise trusting nature is way better than marrying a scientist who can't even brew a cup of tea when needed. You don’t want a walking encyclopedia who can explain quantum physics but someone who can find a solution to the simple problems in life.
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Life has a habit of throwing a curve ball at you from time to time. Things might get messy at work or sometimes relationships get strained. All these take a serious toll on your well being and health. This is the time when you need comfort from the ugly world in the arms of a man who would make you laugh, support you, lift your spirits and make you forget your problems for a while. Well if you already know someone like that, snatch him up before someone else does.
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If you really get to know a guy who is a super negotiator and is ready to comfort your jilted best friend, deal coolly with the cops or your snooty parents….(as sometimes the difference are very thin) and even manages to charms the evil landlady and all her cats! Well, don’t wait or think anymore and put a ring on him.
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A good husband will always listen and understand your problems. He will also make it his priority and never regard them as an added burden or liability. The biggest kindness he can show you is to never compare his issues with yours to make you sound like a chronic whiner. He will always try to help you out first because he puts you before himself.
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The Husband and wife are a team and no problem is an individual problem. They are each other’s best friends and cheerleaders. A good husband will take your opinion before making any big decision and be sincere about your ideas too because there are many men who ask for an opinion from their wives out of duty and go ahead and do what they planned to do anyway. A real loving husband would brainstorm with his wife and make his decision keeping both options in mind. In fact, it’s a crucial element of any happy marriage that couples learn how to sit together and make decisions both big and small.
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A loving husband never sees you as his personal housemaid for cooking and cleaning, but chips in as a partner or team player without any male ego to spoil the love. He understands when you are really tired after work or sick and can even take control of the whole ship and pamper you as well. Besides doing household chores together increases the camaraderie and intimacy between the two and it’s so much more fun.
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An ideal husband will not sneer at your likes such as songs or movie choices. He will make an effort to enjoy such things with you even deriving pleasure in doing so.
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An ideal husband will never throw your disappointments and failures in your face nor will he point at your weaknesses when you are vulnerable or down. Your deal man argues fairly in a manner of trying his best to get his viewpoint across. Ultimately, he may also give you the benefit of the doubt.
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The ideal husband knows how to handle relationships and manage any probable friction between his mother and wife. However, he will never make you feel second best and will always stand between any negativity hurled at you by his family members.
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Although this may sound unfair, but we live in an expensive world and it take two to manage a household. But be that as it may, a financially sound husband makes any woman feel secure and stable.
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You know you have the ideal husband who has a mature head on his shoulders and secure in his relationship. He will never harbor stupid suspicions on your friendship with office colleagues or even your friends.
Having said that, this article is by no means a yardstick to judge your relation as every couple and their dynamics are different. Qualities of your man are unique and lovable that’s why you chose him and not any other random guy and you must always remember this truth for a happy marriage.
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