Nowadays updating a status on the Internet has become top priority amongst almost every age group, while the current affairs prevalent in the world seem trivial or secondary. People tend to judge others based on their written posts and photographs on their Facebook account and other social networking sites. However, this judgment of another person’s character isn’t always right.

There are a few who choose to remain aloof but not completely estranged from the social network. In fact, many couples who enjoy a happy relationship do not post all the happenings of their everyday life online. Here are the intriguing reasons as to why happy couples don’t post on social media.

1 There is No Need to Prove Yourself or Your Relationship to People

Using your partner as material for your social media feed is just shallow and those who are in really good relationships aren’t interested in doing such things. They are in a relationship with each other of their own free will and don’t exactly care much about updating their status to- “In A Relationship” just to prove they are happy to everyone else.

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2 Being in Blissful Relationship with the Person You Love Constitutes True Happiness

Posting about your happiness every time on your timeline on Facebook will get you nothing in return. This begs the question – why post about it? You can easily find more excitement in just being with each other and doing things together. Posting has no appeal at all to those happy couples who understand this fact.

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3 Posting about Relationship Problems is a Bad Idea

If you want to resolve a dispute between yourselves, it will be better to talk it out amongst yourselves. Posting about your personal problems for all to see and comment on will never give you your desired answer. In the worst case, it may completely ruin your beautiful relationship.

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4 Being in a Happy Relationship means Living in the Here and Now

Writing and posting about personal stuff online to flaunt your relationship in front of others seems like a pretty nonsensical waste of time; especially when everything’s going so well in your relationship. This, in no way means that they never take photos or refrain from checking their own social media notifications. It’s just that their happiness comes from living in the moment rather than putting effort into capturing it and posting it online.

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5 Research proves that Couples as well as Single People who don’t use Social Networking Sites are much Happier

According to research findings people who rarely use social networking sites have displayed greater signs of happiness than those who do use. They do not frequently compare their happiness to that of their friends and colleagues who always seem to be happier. And as such they are more content with themselves and their lives which is why happy couples don’t post on social media. Sometimes, it is easy to forget that the reality we live in is what really matters, rather than some online based social-reality.

That being said, it is way better to give more importance to our own experiences, personal feelings and relationships than trying to get people to like your posts and updates online.

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