As a newly married you throw a lot of surprises and shower your wife with gifts but over the years this becomes like a mandatory task for you. To manage your wife in a loving way, try to plan surprises and make all her special days special for her. Do everything out of love and this feeling will touch her heart. And if you want to be cherished by her then wish and celebrate the birthdays and anniversaries of her parents and siblings too.
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When it comes to managing the house and kids blindly follow her way. Whether she likes to keep everything sorted, do not want kids to watch a particular program or have her choice of furniture, do it her way without any arguments. Every wife thinks she knows the best. If you do not follow her way then it will only increase frustration in her.
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Fire can be extinguished only by water not by fire. If you feel a certain topic or situation will create conflict between you two better to avoid it. No point in stretching a topic wherein you both differ. Do not talk negative about her even in anger. For your conflict may resolve but your words will register in her mind forever giving her emotional stress.
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A woman can understand and consider problems all at once as she takes a collective perspective and view elements in a task as interconnected and interdependent. And she has difficulty separating her personal experiences from problems. This overall thinking of hers will make it difficult for you to win an argument with her. And she will narrate all her bad personal experiences with you stored in her memory if you start arguing with her. Silence is best when she is verbally attacking. She will cool down once exhausted but if you argue, your words will register in her mind for further arguments.
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A wife considers her husband her team and will be deeply hurt if the husband does not support her. If she is having conflict with someone to manage your wife take her side. If you feel she is wrong, talk about it to her in private but never in public. If the other person with whom she is having a conflict is also an important part of your life then be neutral but never be on the other side.
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