Whether you are newly married or married for years it is mandatory for you as a husband to learn the art of managing your wife for a smooth married life. Now this art is not taught in any university but is a guided self learning process. And mastering how to manage a wife will bring love, peace and prosperity in your life. As John Florio puts, “A good husband makes a good wife” and a happy wife is a happy life.
To manage your wife it is very important to understand the personality of your wife with whom you are and will be living under one roof all your life. Once you understand her nature and character you will consciously guide your own self how to react and behave in day to day life. No two women are same. Their reactions, likes, dislikes, nature, all differ. One may like to enjoy only with you by her side the other may love to hang around with friends. One may be independent the other submissive. Once you understand your wife in and out you will not find it difficult to manage her.
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Every woman longs to be called beautiful and even strives for the same. Whether a woman is dark or overweight still she has beauty in her. Find her beautiful spots and don’t be miser in praising them. Sound genuine while doing so. Make her feel that she is the most beautiful woman in your eyes. If you want her to bring in some change in the way she looks or behaves don’t be blunt but smartly put forward your thought. Like “You are looking lovely in this dress but will look gorgeous if you reduce a little”. Or “I have put on weight and I am thinking of exercising. Would you like to join me?”
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If you wish to manage your wife smoothly never, never, never compare her to any other female in your life. You will immediately sow seeds of jealousy in her. She will make sure that you remain distant from the female with whom you are comparing her and appreciating. All women are unique and skilled in some or the other work. And each woman is beautiful. Just because your expectations are high from her on one front that does not mean you ignore her other skills and make her feel useless.
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As a newly married you throw a lot of surprises and shower your wife with gifts but over the years this becomes like a mandatory task for you. To manage your wife in a loving way, try to plan surprises and make all her special days special for her. Do everything out of love and this feeling will touch her heart. And if you want to be cherished by her then wish and celebrate the birthdays and anniversaries of her parents and siblings too.
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When it comes to managing the house and kids blindly follow her way. Whether she likes to keep everything sorted, do not want kids to watch a particular program or have her choice of furniture, do it her way without any arguments. Every wife thinks she knows the best. If you do not follow her way then it will only increase frustration in her.
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Fire can be extinguished only by water not by fire. If you feel a certain topic or situation will create conflict between you two better to avoid it. No point in stretching a topic wherein you both differ. Do not talk negative about her even in anger. For your conflict may resolve but your words will register in her mind forever giving her emotional stress.
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A woman can understand and consider problems all at once as she takes a collective perspective and view elements in a task as interconnected and interdependent. And she has difficulty separating her personal experiences from problems. This overall thinking of hers will make it difficult for you to win an argument with her. And she will narrate all her bad personal experiences with you stored in her memory if you start arguing with her. Silence is best when she is verbally attacking. She will cool down once exhausted but if you argue, your words will register in her mind for further arguments.
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A wife considers her husband her team and will be deeply hurt if the husband does not support her. If she is having conflict with someone to manage your wife take her side. If you feel she is wrong, talk about it to her in private but never in public. If the other person with whom she is having a conflict is also an important part of your life then be neutral but never be on the other side.
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It’s ok if you love watching your football match or drinking sessions with your friends. But take equal interest in your wife’s likings and try to cultivate a taste for it. All humans have different interests but have something in common that both you and your wife can enjoy doing together. It can be watching movies, singing, swimming or travelling. This will bind you two together closely and increase companionship.
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All human are hungry for praises. And we love people who shower praises on us. To manage your wife well praise the way she is running the house, praise the food she has cooked for you, thank and praise her when she takes care of you during sickness, praise the way she is growing in her profession, celebrate her success as if it is your victory, praise her for being a lovely mother and make her feel at the top of the world when she is disappointed. By praising you are encouraging her to do better.
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Marriage will not put an end towards your female attraction. But keep your roving eyes and desire to check out other females in control especially when you are with your wife. Else she will immediately feel disrespected and it will be difficult for you to manage your wife later. When your wife is around she should be the center of your attraction and no one else.
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Talk to her about her aspirations, dreams, thoughts, childhood memories, fantasies, family, life, good and bad memories, likes and dislikes. She will love to share it with you. Women love humorous guys so try to be one and enjoy seeing her laugh at your jokes. Give her relaxing moments when she is tired. Understand her monthly mood swings and biological clock and ignore her irritated, depressed or anxious behavior. To manage a wife, be her best friend.
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